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Thursday, 4 December 2008
Ideas
Ok, so I know theres probably no readers out there cause my blogging regularity has gone down the drain. But I’m blogging to ask for ideas of how to make friends in London, any ideas just post a comment.
Errrm... Volunteering of some sort? Or there must be somewhere in London where you could go climbing? I would imagine you might also be able to find some kind of gay/Christian coffee meet-up type group, might be interesting.
Blueyedboy beat me to it: volunteer. You need to be around people who are doing things you like, too. Join up somewhere, even if you are shy or introverted, in an activity that requires participation. What do you like?
Two more things: since you are a man of faith, do you have connections where you can be who you are and a man of faith? If not, I really suggest seeking that out. There are several gay-friendly Christian churches in London to become involved in. http://www.gaychurch.org/Find_a_Church/foriegn_nations/UK.htm
Second, be sure that you are not looking to the outside world (including the bf) to satisfy a fundamentally inward hunger. If you are a reader, the book "WE: Understanding the Psychology of Romantic Love" by Robert A. Johnson would help.
Well where do I start. I’m 24, Christian and Gay. Am yet to come out to my parents or anyone in my home life. I’m also Dyslexic, so apologies for and spelling mistakes. I’m on my second blog “gay, christian and scared shitless” which is going to be all about me coming out to the world. I’m Christian; and not in the token sense, I have a real relationship God, one where we argue, where he saves me, where I know I’m always loved.
My passions are music (listen, writing and playing). I’m a bit of a geek and love my technology. Apple is my second god :-P
I’m a fun out going person and not you’re a-typical gay. I love a good night out but also love staying in and cuddling up in front of a fire or a good movie.
I have a BF who is lovely and is a keeper :-D
I’ve lived in Uganda and Kenya when I was a kid.
Apart from that just email me to know more.
4 comments:
Errrm... Volunteering of some sort? Or there must be somewhere in London where you could go climbing? I would imagine you might also be able to find some kind of gay/Christian coffee meet-up type group, might be interesting.
Blueyedboy beat me to it: volunteer. You need to be around people who are doing things you like, too. Join up somewhere, even if you are shy or introverted, in an activity that requires participation. What do you like?
Yup, yup, a 3rd the suggestion. Find a cause you believe in. Put your time, energy and self into it.
Aron
Two more things: since you are a man of faith, do you have connections where you can be who you are and a man of faith? If not, I really suggest seeking that out. There are several gay-friendly Christian churches in London to become involved in. http://www.gaychurch.org/Find_a_Church/foriegn_nations/UK.htm
Second, be sure that you are not looking to the outside world (including the bf) to satisfy a fundamentally inward hunger. If you are a reader, the book "WE: Understanding the Psychology of Romantic Love" by Robert A. Johnson would help.
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